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BOTD 1/1/13 "HYPOCRITE!" A John Boy Production

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David M. Katz


Marshall
HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM BOTD !
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HYPOCRITE !

A JohnBoy Production


These are your sons. Han is nine and Luke is fourteen. Both are subject to spanking if needed.

HAN - 9
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LUKE -14
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The boys will often use part of their allowance to purchase snacks and soft drinks. Last month, Luke took one of Han's soft drinks from the fridge and drank it without asking. When Han reported the matter to you, Luke was read the riot act and you even threatened to spank him. Luke was made to replace Han's drink with part of his allowance.

Today the tables are turned and Han has taken and drank one of Luke's soft drinks without permission. Luke reported the matter to you. You told Luke he needed to be more understanding of his little brother and to let it go. Luke immediately got angry and started screaming at you saying you were unfair and you were a hypocrite.

How do you deal with Luke's disrespectful outburst?


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MemoryMan


Sherrif
Respect can't just be demanded; it has to be earned and I've just had a wake-up call. I'll stop being a hypocrite and start being more even handed before I lose Luke's respect on a more permanent basis.

Han will have to replace Luke's drink.

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John Boy


Sherrif
Well this once again is somewhat true. The truth at a later time.

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Padraig


Trailboss
I agree.

1strappedboy


Sherrif
That's not disrespect; I earned that outburst fair and square!

I would hope never to be that way in R/L, as I am always aware of how focused young teens are on the idea of fairness. I did myself a bit of disservice on this one so I'll apologize to him and reassure Luke of my intention to be equitable.

Han gets the riot act and replaces Luke's drink under threat of a spanking should there be a repeat.

Hopefully the boys will be ok with each other now.

Kat


Editor Extraordinaire
I'm with MM and the others who've replied.

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ivor


Marshall
I'm wrong and Luke is right. I need to be consistent BUT he shouldn't have got so worked up about it which I wil explain to him - when he has calmed down.

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Jack


Admin
I point out to Luke that yelling at me and calling me names is only a good way to get himself a sore backside, not a good way to get his way.

Then I add that that is true, no matter how accurate the names are. I also remind him that factors change over a month, and he should no more expect other people to react the same every time than he should be expected to do himself.

Having said all that, and making sure the boy is willing to touch up his attitude a bit, I then call in Han, read him the riot act. Since this is a repeated act (Han didn't do it before, but I'm assuming he heard the threatened spanking), and since he probably gets less allowance than his big brother, I'm going to ask him if he wants to replace the drink, or if he wants me to pay for it, after I spank him. (If he takes the second, it won't be a terribly hard spanking, but it will be enough to get his attention).

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Pi Beta


Deputy
I'm with Jack on this one.

squarecutter


Sherrif
Did I just forget. I will just have to cam Luke down and tell him he is of course correct but that I don't expect boys of 14 to be having tantrums. The cost of the can will be deducted from Hans allowance and passed to Luke. I HOPE that will be the end of it eh kids.

John Boy


Sherrif
Okay the real version. Luke is really 22 Year Old JB and Han is really 16 Year Old Brat
Spoiler:
This actually happened just the other day. I had brought home some soda from Grandma's (Mt. Dew) for JB and (Dr. Pepper) for bro. There were about five left, I drank three over a few days and put the last two in the Fridge at 05:30 before I went to work. I got home a little after noon. Went and took a nap because it was a long day. When I came out at about ten till five, I went to the fridge and found both cans missing. I started out by talking to Dad but he sort of gave me an I don't care response. I tell Dad I know how long the sodas needed to last. He goes "Well just go buy more." I reply that "A. Whenever I put money towards Soda this sort of thing happens and B. I am on a tight financial budget and can't keep replacing soda that I don't get to drink" I press a little harder and he goes "What do you want me to do Smack him around" Now he raised his voice and got defensive. I got frustrated and called him a hypocrite because if it were the other way around I would have been told not to drink his sodas.



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db105


Trailboss
I don't really like that the boys have to spend part of their allowance buying snacks to have at home. There's a limit to the kind and amount of snacks and soft drinks I'd allow, for health reasons, but I think that some snacks for the boys should be part of the family budget. I'd try to get the boys used to drinking water instead of soft drinks when they are thirsty, and leave soft drinks for special occasions.

Going back to the issue here: Luke is, of course, correct. I need to treat them more fairly. His brother is younger, and some allowances can be made for that, but I can't tell Luke off and threaten him with a spanking and then ignore it when Hans does the very same thing. I need to apologize to him and correct the wrong. I may also talk with Luke about defending his views in a less incensed manner.

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Stone Man


Marshall
Dad's a slow learner.

Han needs to replace the soda and both need to leave each others' things alone.

David M. Katz


Marshall
Luke, he is your father.

The outburst, understandable it is. To be not hypocrite called, be not hypocrite. Luke sees much favor in young Han and slighted he feels. I sense much confusion in Father. To the dark side he has gone.


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ivor


Marshall
David M. Katz wrote:Luke, he is your father.

The outburst, understandable it is. To be not hypocrite called, be not hypocrite. Luke sees much favor in young Han and slighted he feels. I sense much confusion in Father. To the dark side he has gone.


This sounds like the cue for the appearance of CP3Oh Smile

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John Boy


Sherrif
ivor wrote:
David M. Katz wrote:Luke, he is your father.

The outburst, understandable it is. To be not hypocrite called, be not hypocrite. Luke sees much favor in young Han and slighted he feels. I sense much confusion in Father. To the dark side he has gone.


This sounds like the cue for the appearance of CP3Oh Smile

(JB in the voice of C3P0) That sounds like Jedi Master Yoda. He is basically saying that it is understandable to call him a Hypocrite, but at the same time not right. Luke is feeling that Han get's treated better than he. He also was saying how Luke's Dad is heading for the dark side with the way he treats his boys, and he is blinded by it.

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