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BOTD 1/9/13 "A BUTT FOR AN ARM" A DMK PRODUCTION

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David M. Katz


Marshall
A BUTT FOR AN ARM

A DMK Production

You have two sons. Drake is thirteen and Drew is eleven. Drake and Drew are extremely close. Both Drake and Drew are good boys and typically well-behaved. On the rare occasion that punishment is needed, a spanking serves the purpose.

Today, the boys were out in the yard playing. They got to wrestling around with each other. They were just playing but were getting very physical. Something went wrong and Drew grabbed Drake the wrong way and Drake's arm got broken.

You are now back from the emergency room and Drake has a cast and some pain medication. Drew seems very down and withdrawn.

Drew comes to you in tears and says he is very sorry he hurt his older brother. You reassure him that Drake will be fine and that it was an accident. He will not be consoled and tells you he needs a spanking. You try to convince Drew that he did nothing wrong but he is becoming more inconsolable. He finally tells you, "Please spank me. I made Drake hurt and I should have to hurt too."


Drake - 13
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Drew -11
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Do you finally grant Drew's request?


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AFinch


Sherrif
No. They were just playing, as boys do. It was an accident.

I'm going to sit with Drew and explain to him that a sore butt will not unbreak Drake's broken arm. I'll give him all the reassurance he needs. He also needs to learn that a spanking isn't a panacea for all deeds.

Kat


Editor Extraordinaire
I have to agree with Kier. A spanking for what was an accident -- and not one that happened through negligence or carelessness -- is just not an appropriate response. Drew can salve the guilt that is inevitable in this situation by volunteering to help out with Drake's chores.

Kat

1strappedboy


Sherrif
2/3 of the K Klub says it for me!

I like Kat's input re doing the chores as a way of salving the conscience.

David M. Katz


Marshall
Dimitri,

The K club is now 3/3 and unanimous. I love the idea of suggesting that Drew do Drake's chores. Great idea, Kat!


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John Boy


Sherrif
ok 3/3 on the K club and now a 1 Vote in the J club. Chores yes, spanking maybe a swat and a it was an accident.

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1strappedboy


Sherrif
Hey JB-

That's 2/3 of the 'J club'!! Remember, though I go by Dimitri, my first name IS Jakov!! Razz

Stone Man


Marshall
I'm all for Kat's chore helping idea, but no spanking unless he gets to the point of being obnoxious and then the spanking will be for that... NOT for an accident.

squarecutter


Sherrif
Poor kid. Who is beating up who now. If I thought it was getting too physical I could have stepped in. These things happen. I will remind him though that with his brother hors de combat the workload will have to be spread to the rest of us which WILL mean more chores all round. So the best thing you can do kiddo is rally round and help out. Still now his brother isn't in pain he will probably be enjoying all the the attention you normally get. No spanking

Jack


Admin
My reaction to this really depends upon Drake. Intense pain can really wear you out, and if he's on pain medication, he might be totally out of it.

If he's not, I'm going to briefly explain the trouble to him. If he's not holding Drew responsible, then I'll ask him to talk to his brother.

If Drake isn't able to talk (or does seem to blame his brother), and Drew isn't willing to wait, then I will spank him. I'll get the brush, but use it to finish up a long, but slow and not too hard hand spanking. Given Drew's state of mind, I'm sure it'll seem a lot worse than it is and allow him to move on.

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Jack


Admin
I agree with the 'K club' in theory, but may I point out that the scenario says you've already told Drew multiple times that it was an accident, and it's not working?

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ivor


Marshall
I'm with the K Cub. I simply don't see that a spanking would be the right response in this sitation - even if it is what Drew says he wants. Do I always give him what he wants?

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Kittykat


Deputy
I think for me the question I'd ask myself is, is this going to do more harm then good even if he says he wants it?

The problem I have with it, is I don't want Drew to feel that me spanking him will always make things better. On the other hand, I'm worried he'll do something to force my hand if I don't.

I think a moderate hand spanking with the clear explanation that it is NOT for the accident but for rough housing after I've warned them to stop. Then I'm going to go have a nice cold beer to settle MOM down. LOL.

kalico


Sherrif
Very Happy Im gonna DITTO Mrs. Kitty....except for me it will be a nice glass of wine and a soak in the hot tub.....LOL

hugs kal

db105


Trailboss
Another vote for Kier/Kat's suggestions. No spanking. I'll reassure him, get Drake to reassure him if he is able, and tell Drew that he will feel better by helping his brother now, while he can't use his arm.

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JTT


Cowboy
I agree with everyone, it was an accident! No need for any red bottoms tonight Sad

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MemoryMan


Sherrif
Late into this it strikes me that only Jack seems to have considered Drake's position. If he is sanguine about his injury then I will go with the flow and explain to Drew that a spanking will do nothing to alleviate Drake's injuries and that natural consequences such as a feeling of remorse can teach a stronger lesson than external punishment.

If, however, I feel the boys relationship has soured and Drew's request is due to Drake feeling resentment over what he considers an act of reckless stupidity then I'll put Drake on the spot. I'll tell him of his brother's request and ask him if he thinks he really needs to be spanked. That, I think, will settle the issue.

If their relationship has soured so much that I'm wrong then I'll go ahead with a moderate spanking and hope for the best.

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