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BOTD 01-20-13 - Hanky Spanky - An Ivor Production

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Skater


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Hanky Spanky

An Ivor Production

You have just come home from work in the evening, open the door of the family room and this is what you see


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Your 16 year old son Clint over the knee of another man - hence his shocked expression at being caught

Once you've got rid of the other man are you going to give Clint a spanking of your own?


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AFinch


Sherrif
I'm going to ask what's going on.

Said "man" doesn't look much older than Clint. If they're school mates, I don't think I'm going to make a big deal of this, other than suggesting they be discreet. If it's a much older man, that would call for more conversation. Assuming this was consensual, I'm not personally willing to ruin the man's life, even if his judgment was poor.

I'll let Clint know that what he was doing was dangerous for both of them, Clint physically and his "friend" legally, while letting him also know that playing spanky games doesn't make him some sort of freak.

Either way, I think spanking is off the table as punishment from here on. Something that gives enjoyment/secondary gratification is not an appropriate actual punishment.

PS I believe the "age of consent" in UK is 16. In most of the US, it's 18. In the current "witch hunt" climate here, at least, the "man" (even if he's 18-19) would be looking at hard time, and lots of it. From the scenario, Clint looks like he's a very willing participant. Society has decided to infantilize boys and young men til they are nearly 30. I think that a 16 year old knows whether he wants to play this sort of game and society would be better served if the courts would butt out.



Last edited by AFinch on Sat Jan 19, 2013 8:38 pm; edited 1 time in total (Reason for editing : PS)

db105


Trailboss
I'm going to agree with Kier here. I don't think a spanking will help much in this situation.

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John Boy


Sherrif
db105 wrote:I'm going to agree with Kier here. I don't think a spanking will help much in this situation.

Might as well ditto this because I have nothing to add.

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David M. Katz


Marshall
John Boy wrote:
db105 wrote:I'm going to agree with Kier here. I don't think a spanking will help much in this situation.

Might as well ditto this because I have nothing to add.

I concur, ditto, "what they said."


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1strappedboy


Sherrif
Like most, I'm going with 'what Doc said' .

Though I can't imagine 'wanting it' in that sense given my history, to each his own.

Stone Man


Marshall
Already been said well by others.

squarecutter


Sherrif
Get the man out the house. Technically he could be guilty of an indecent act on my son. No point in spanking after that

MemoryMan


Sherrif
This is Nirvana, my 16yo son a spanko like me. Very Happy

Get 'em down son - and would your friend like to join in too? Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Twisted Evil

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Padraig


Trailboss
Stone Man wrote:Already been said well by others.

ditto

StevieWeeks


Trailboss
At sixteen, in many countries, a youngster has limited power to consent to sexual activity... in this case, it is doubtful that in Canada, either party would be breaking the law unless there was no consent, money has changed hands, or there was some duty of care between the man and your son. I rather believe that this is the same in the United Kingdom as well.

Therefore, I do not have the right to castigate my son for what he has done... nor would I want to because I do not want to drive this behaviour underground in any case. If the boy is into spanking, there is potential harm involved and I much prefer to have some idea what he's doing.

I will back out of the room and allow the session to come to an end, and then I will have a chat with the boy about discretion and the dangers that might arise from this type of sexual activity... it is likely that the whole scenario was devised with the desire, conscious or unconscious, to let me know what his proclivities are and how he has been satisfying them.

In any case, as others have observed above, a spanking is probably not the best way to punish a spankophile Wink

Stevie (the horrible inhuman monster who hates Christmas affraid )

Kat


Editor Extraordinaire
I'm a lot more concerned with how he hooked up with this person, who appears substantially older. No spanking and some very serious talking.

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Jack


Admin
It seems to me that spanking might not be sending the right message anymore.

The first thing I'm going to do is assure myself that, under Texas law, the other fellow wasn't another 'man', but was still a boy. The second thing I'm going to do is let Clint know how disappointed I am in him... I mean, hanging around with someone who wears skin tight pants and high heeled, low rise boots. "My God, son. Can't you tell a hipster when you see one? Are your vaccinations up to date?"

Seriously though, if that's what Clint's into, there's no use in giving him a hard time about it. I am going to have a talk with him about safe sex, including safe places to do it (then again, since they're both fully dressed, it's not a huge deal).

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squarecutter


Sherrif
hAVE DOUBLE CHECKED THIS ON WIKIPEDIA. iT WOULD APPEAR THAT THE AGE OF CONSENT MAY WELL BE 16 UNLESS THE OLDER PERSON IF ANY WAS IN A POSITION OF AUTHORITY VIS A VIS THE YOUNGER PERSON, EG TEACHER, GUARDIAN, FOSTER PARENT. i WOULD STILL WANT THE GUY OUT OF THE HOUSE THOUGH. The latest rule change was pushed through by a ruling in the European court of human rights so I imagine it is similar in other parts of Europe.

JTT


Cowboy
All I Can Really Say Is, Ditto! Looks Like Spanking Is Off The Table Now...

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