Your eleven year old son, Ralph, and your spouse had an argument over his chores not being done. Ralph got angry and cursed at your spouse. Ralph was told he would be spanked for it. As your spouse went to get the paddle, Ralph "ran away."
You got a frantic call at work from your spouse saying that Ralph was missing. The story was related to you and your spouse claims to have looked everywhere and is about to call the police. Apparently Ralph has been missing for a little over an hour.
You are able to get away from work. You also know your son and his hangouts very well. Sure enough, you go to what you know he calls his "thinking spot" and he is there. You call your frantic spouse to say Ralph is found but you and he are going to have a talk for a while before coming home.
What are the results of your talk with Ralph?