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4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben

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1 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sat May 03, 2014 5:52 pm

Jack


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Your 13-year old son, Ben, is spanked when he gets out of line, though you've begun using a small strap with him since his last birthday, though you still use your hand as well.  Your intention is pretty much to still use extra chores and minor restrictions for minor things, hand spankings as one step up, moving up to 6 with the strap, his age with the strap, then the strap after a spanking.  

Since the first time you spanked Ben, when he was in first grade, it's always been bare (Ben bare).  The only thing that's changes is, as he grew older, you started sending him to his room to undress and 'think' a couple of minutes before you joined him.  While he doesn't enjoy that, he prefers undressing himself, so he has always been ready when you arrive, knowing his choice is be ready or have you do it, and probably get extra smacks as well.

Recently you've been having online problems with Ben.  You very carefully explained what the problem was, and why you feel that it is a problem.  You didn't punish him that time, but you told him that you feel it's very serious, and that if he does it again, he'll get his first taste of the strap after a spanking.

Today was that repeat, and you send Ben to his room to get ready.

When you enter the room...

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As soon as you come in, Ben begins begging you to not make him undress.  Considering that he's shot up about three inches since the last time you used CP with him, and has now broken five feet, you have a pretty good idea of why he's suddenly worried about that.

The person who does not ask will never get a bargain.

Is Ben going to get a bargain?


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2 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sat May 03, 2014 6:45 pm

AFinch


Sherrif
Ben is not going to get the bargain he wants.

Respecting his new found adolescent "modesty", he can pull his jeans down, and go over my knee (or the bed), following which the backs of his (I'm guessing) boxers will be slid down just enough to expose the relevant target.

He can keep his "junk" private, but I think there are legitimate, non-pervy, reasons for spankings to be on bare skin. I doubt I'll have to explain that, but I will if need be.

3 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sat May 03, 2014 8:55 pm

1strappedboy


Sherrif
I understand his shyness and the reasons for it. All of that being said, "you have nothing I haven't seen a bazillion times unless you've grown something new (not different/larger) so drop 'em!"

Sorry, but I need to see the product of my work. Having had someone who was more than willing to draw blood on my rear at your age, I need to make sure I don't go too far.

4 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sat May 03, 2014 10:18 pm

Stone Man


Marshall
Too bad Kiddo, but being bare is part of a spanking and that's not going to change. You of course always have the option of behaving and then the problem you are having with being bared is avoided. (Ben gives me one of these Rolling Eyes )

I will let Ben strip down to his briefs and then look him in the eye as he drops his drawers and keep looking up as he goes over my lap affording him more privacy then he has earned.

I doubt he'll be very worried about his privacy once I'm done with him today.

5 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 04, 2014 1:59 am

kalico


Sherrif
Rolling Eyes ...DITTO the three above..... Very Happy 


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6 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 04, 2014 2:00 am

ivor


Marshall
I concur.

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7 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 04, 2014 2:11 am

MemoryMan


Sherrif
The doc said it for me.

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8 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 04, 2014 3:04 am

David M. Katz


Marshall
MemoryMan wrote:The doc said it for me.

And me.


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9 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 04, 2014 4:18 am

Jack


Admin
I pretty much agree with everyone else. If he's really uncomfortable about it (and I'll probably be able to tell), I'm willing to let him get his jeans off and get in position, then take care of the boxers. If he's paying enough attention, he can even pull them back up before he gets up, but I've noticed boys tend to be a lot less modest after the spanking.


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10 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 04, 2014 8:35 am

Kat


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For me, it's more important that Ben cooperate with his punishment and have no resentment afterwards than it is to insist on baring him. I also want him focused on the punishment itself and the reason for it, rather than on some unintended element of humiliation. If it's really that important to me that he be bare, my suggested compromise is that he can wear a jockstrap for the punishment.

Kat

11 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 04, 2014 10:55 am

Jack


Admin
I agree that both of those things are important, Kat; but, I also think it's very important that he understand the time to negotiate is before you break the rules.

I guess the honest truth is that the best thing you can do is explain your feelings, listen to his, then try to come to a compromise with which you can both be happy - or with which neither of you is happy, but with which both of you can live.


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12 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Mon May 05, 2014 5:45 am

squarecutter


Sherrif
Is this about modesty or just about fear of greater pain. I rather suspect the latterin which case he he needs to get the message that he didn't heed the warning seriously enough. I will allow him another chance to get himself ready

13 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Mon May 05, 2014 2:54 pm

Jack


Admin
squarecutter wrote:Is this about modesty or just about fear of greater pain.

Square, as the writer, I can tell you that it's about modesty. I was extremely shy as a boy, and I would have argued and begged in this situation.

How you, as the father in the scenario, interprets it is what makes these things so interesting.


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14 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Mon May 05, 2014 6:08 pm

Padraig


Trailboss
He is going to get it bare and he knows it. Whether I get to see his "tools" is negotiable. Probably the 'first get in position and then get the pants down' approach is the best solution.

15 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Tue May 06, 2014 4:25 pm

Eldo


Cowboy
Before I can answer this, I think I need to be clear on one point.

When we say 'bare', do we mean 'bare bottomed', or 'nude'?

16 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Tue May 06, 2014 4:48 pm

MemoryMan


Sherrif
"Bare" refers to the target area when I use it.

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17 Re: 4 May 2014 - Bargaining Ben on Sun May 11, 2014 5:59 pm

John Boy


Sherrif
he knows this is the way we do it. I won't use the "I have seen it all before cliche" but he is going to get it bare. Even if we have to waste our breath for a few hours talking about it.

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