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BOTD 3/3/15 "Tim Turns Over A new Leaf" A Kat Production

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David M. Katz


Marshall
Tim Turns Over a New Leaf
A Kat Production


Your youngest son, Tim, 10, has always been difficult when it comes to spankings. His crying and physical resistance make spanking him at least as much of an ordeal for the rest of the family as it is for him. Only a conviction that it would be unfair to his older siblings not to spank him at all has kept you from using exclusively non-physical discipline with him – not that he accepts that much better, but at least there isn’t so much immediate stress! You put his reaction down to a combination of being a bit the spoiled baby and actually being more sensitive than the others.

Now Tim faces another spanking, but to your surprise, he seems to be trying to control himself. He accompanies you voluntarily to his room, where, while managing to hold his tears in check – just – he offers no resistance as you bare his bottom and place him over your lap. He does struggle a bit once the spanking is underway, but it’s clear he is doing his best to cooperate and take it.

Once it’s over, you tell him you’re proud of him for accepting his punishment. Through his tears, he manages to explain to you that his changed attitude is due to his older brother, Ben (13), telling him after his last spanking that only wimps and cowards carry on the way he has.



Ben - 13 and Tim - 10
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Do you owe Ben your gratitude or should you punish him for violating the family rule about teasing someone about how he took a punishment?



Last edited by David M. Katz on Mon Mar 02, 2015 9:03 pm; edited 1 time in total (Reason for editing : Corrected date)


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David M. Katz


Marshall
I think this can be handled by me pulling Ben aside and reminding him of the rule. I see no reason to punish Ben. It seems that maybe a little discussion with big brother was what Tim needed.


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Pi Beta


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An older brother's advice was probably the only way that the message could have been delivered to Tim and, though Ben's choice of words might have violated the family code, it is likely that only by using such words was Ben able effectively to get the message across.

It seems to have worked, so I'm saying nothing but smiling inwardly.

Iconoclast


Trailboss
Good, Ben has told Tim the plain truth, and it has worked!

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AFinch


Sherrif
I agree with everyone else. Ben has done everyone a favor, including Tim, and to punish him would be counterproductive. Tim clearly took his big brother's words to heart, rather than taking offense at them.

Jack


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If I'm admitting (even if just to myself) that Tim is a bit spoiled, then I think I'm going to have to accept Ben's input. On the other hand, I will have a word with Ben and let him know that I consider what he did acceptable, but close to the edge (from what Tim said, Ben wasn't actually calling him names).


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squarecutter


Sherrif
Ben got it across. I wondered if he managed to appeal to the ten year old in Tim who might be getting more sensitive to being called a wimp as he gets older. I just want to be sure it wasn't done in a harsh or cruel way. Some kids ARE just more sensitive than others

John Boy


Sherrif
Jack wrote:If I'm admitting (even if just to myself) that Tim is a bit spoiled, then I think I'm going to have to accept Ben's input.  On the other hand, I will have a word with Ben and let him know that I consider what he did acceptable, but close to the edge (from what Tim said, Ben wasn't actually calling him names).
ditto.

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Stone Man


Marshall
Iconoclast wrote:Good, Ben has told Tim the plain truth, and it has worked!

Iconoclast


Often times the plain truth from an older sib can get through where all parental suggestions have failed.

MemoryMan


Sherrif
Iconoclast wrote:Good, Ben has told Tim the plain truth, and it has worked!

Iconoclast


.................and I'm saying nothing.

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ivor


Marshall
You could argue that Tim has broken the code by telling you what Ben said to him!

I think it is best left as something between the pair of them, especially as there is no resentment from Tim at what Ben told him and it has solved a problem.

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Skater


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I am not spanking Ben for this but I am spanking him for the cigarettes I found in his room. A hand spanking followed by a couple with the hairbrush


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Kat


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Like everyone else, I won't spank Ben; I won't even mention the matter to him. If Tim had complained to me at the time Ben spoke to him, I would have had to treat this differently. Since Tim made no complaint, he apparently did not feel bullied by his older brother. I'm happy Tim took Ben's words, harsh though they were, to heart.

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