A Kalico Production
You live in what used to be a logging town that had used the trains in the past but has now pulled all the rail tracks up. There is a lake in your town; one that has a favorite cliff/bridge jumping spot that is a passage of rights for young teens and just happens to be at the front of the flooded train tunnel. This has been going on since the late 1950's when they flooded the tunnel. (When you and your friends did it, it wasn't as dangerous.) In the last fifteen years or so there have been several deaths due to the fact that the tunnel is totally under water and one can get swept under and into the tunnel. The authorities have tried everything they know how to stop this including putting a high fence around the cliff and on the walking bridge but kids just find a way around it.
You have made it very clear to your son, thirteen year old Matt, that if you ever caught him jumping that he would get a very hard upgrade spanking for endangering his life.
Matt comes to you and assk to go to the lake with his friend John, also thirteen, and his family who you are good friends with. You tell Matt yes but also remind him of your promise of what would happen if you found out he'd been jumping off the bridge/cliff. He tells you, "Yes, I know," so you leave it at that and hug him and tell him to have fun.
A week later you're walking out of your office as your son and John walk around the corner and are laughing and talking about how much fun it was jumping off the cliff into what has always been called "The Devil's Punch Bowl."
What is your response now?