a Jack Production
Today your sons - Jaime (13) and Luis (14) road their bikes to the skate park. You gave them some money to get lunch.
When you get home and check your Facebook, you find them tagged in this picture.
The problem is that, while you didn't specify where they could or should go for lunch, this taco place is definitely out of bounds for them, since they have to cross the highway to get there. You might have been willing to let them go there if they'd asked, but that's normally a busy area anyway, and the construction occurring now makes it worse.
When you feel the need to impose consequences, you've used both various kinds of restrictions as well as corporal punishment. Is it time to trot one of those out, will you just talk to them, or will you pretend you never saw the picture at all?