A Leti Production
You have two sons and both are subject to spanking if needed. Billy is nine and David is fourteen. Billy's tablet is broken right now and so he asks if he can use your laptop to play games. You have some things to do for work so you tell him he will have to use it later. Billy borrows David's laptop instead. This is not a real problem as David lets Billy use his laptop and Billy even has David's password but Billy is always supposed to ask first but David isn't home. Billy stretches out on the kitchen floor (his favorite place) to play his game.
You pass through the kitchen and notice Billy is typing and not playing. You ask what he is doing.
"A message window popped up from 'Auntie.' It said 'hello.' I thought it was Aunt Karen so I said 'hello.' I don't think it is Aunt Karen because this person is saying some weird stuff. Anyway, I think she thinks I am David because she reminded me about meeting at a party on Friday. Hey, if David is going to a party can I go?"
You tell Billy you need to look at David's computer for a minute and send him outside to play. The message window has some very explicit language. You do some quick research and are able to ascertain that David has been to some adult websites and has apparently befriended "Auntie" and appears to have plans to meet up with her this Friday at a party.
You realize David is now home and is relaxing with the dog in the den.
How do you sort all of this out? What conversations do you have and what actions do you take with Billy and David?