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BOTD 04-19-2016 I Changed my Mind, I Pick Grounding!

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Skater


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I Changed My Mind, I Pick Grounding

Your have been his "dad" (he calls you dad) for about six months since you married his mom. Tristen is 13 going on 14. You are away on business when Tristen gets into trouble because he missed the bus after school for the third time. Your spouse promised the next time she had to pick him up because he missed the bus he would be in "big trouble". Big trouble for Tristen is being grounded for two weeks.

Grounding means no outside activities and going to bed early without the use of any games or devices. (after school work is done). You've always offered to tan Tristen's butt instead but you told him once he switches over you will decide when he can go back.

Tristen has a school function later tonight and he doesn't want to miss it so he calls you and says he will take the spanking when you get home tomorrow. Well everyone has agreed and Tristen goes to his event and you come home the next day.


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Looks like the boy has changed his mind? Now what?


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Y Lee Coyote


Cowboy
Why did Mom pick him up?  He should have stayed in the school library doing his homework until he got some food and returned for the function.  Then he does NOT require a special pickup.

Also, are not school functions exempt from grounding?

OK, all that aside, Tristen needs to understand he gave his word and made a contract.  I hope that after this discussion, he does the right thing.  Afterwards, we can work out the future.

Y.

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David M. Katz


Marshall
Y Lee Coyote wrote: Tristen needs to understand he gave his word and made a contract.  I hope that after this discussion, he does the right thing.  Afterwards, we can work out the future.


I don't know if Tristen is trying to pull one over on me or if he legitimately had a change of heart based on fear or whatever . Anyway, we need to talk and YLC's thoughts would work well here.


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David M. Katz


Marshall
Y Lee Coyote wrote:
Also, are not school functions exempt from grounding?


Would depend on the function. Is it a party or a dance or an athletic event or play, etc. that he simply wants to watch? A grounding would preclude that. If it is a class requirement or a concert, play or athletic event he is participating in then he would go to the event.


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StevieWeeks


Trailboss
Too late, Sweet Pea...

AFinch


Sherrif
I agree with Stevie (and everyone else, in principle). He's made a contract. It's too late to back out now.

John Boy


Sherrif
AFinch wrote:I agree with Stevie (and everyone else, in principle).  He's made a contract.  It's too late to back out now.
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Kat


Editor Extraordinaire
I'm in agreement with everyone else. The big problem is what I do if Tristen continues to refuse to honor his agreement. I'm not going to coerce him, but he has to understand there are consequences: he isn't going to escape punishment altogether. I hope that a frank discussion with him will resolve the issue; otherwise, he is going to be grounded twice as long, with harsher conditions.

Kat

ivor


Marshall
I don't see that I can force Tristen to change his mind, but I am going to point out to him that doing so will result in an extended grounding with harsher conditions as Kat suggests. I'll also make it clear that doing so would make me doubt him holding to any agreements we might come to in the future.

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kalico


Sherrif
I'm agreement with Kat and Ivor .... I can't make him but his grounding will worse.....



Hugs kal

Emlyn Morgan


Trailboss
I like the idea of giving a choice of grounding or a whacking.

As for his mother not wanting to drive him home - I think I'll divorce her.

Y Lee Coyote


Cowboy
Emlyn Morgan wrote:As for his mother not wanting to drive him home - I think I'll divorce her.
Perhaps it was going for him that was the issue rather than driving him home. Smile

But be careful what you wish for -- who gets custody? Laughing

But on further thought -- he should not have been wasting time going home only to return to school soon after but have PLANNED to stay and do work.

Y.

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squarecutter


Sherrif
I disagree as he aleady got to the "next big gig" when the grounding was suppoiosed to hav started.Punishments are supposed to be painful/and or inconvenient and and the kid doesnt get to dictate terms. So the spanking is going ahead

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