A DMK Production
Your twelve year old son, Lewis, is usually spanked if needed but you do occasionally use restrictive punishments.
Lewis was invited to a sleepover with his best friend for Saturday and Saturday night. You tell Lewis he can go as long as two things are done. He has a major project due at school on Monday of the next week and you want to see significant progress on the project. Lewis is also responsible for keeping his room in some semblance of order. You do not require perfection but Lewis's room currently looks like a war zone and so you tell him his room also needs to be neatened up. You give Lewis a couple of reminders during the week.
It is Saturday morning and Lewis is getting ready to go to his friend's house. You note his room is in worse condition (you didn't think that was possible) and zero work has been done on the school project. You tell Lewis he may not go to the sleepover and to call his friend and let him know. Lewis storms off to use the phone.
Lewis has taken the phone to his room. You happen to walk by and hear Lewis saying loud and clear, "Because my dad is a f**king a**hole, that's why." Lewis has no idea you heard.