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BOTD 7/31/16 "Fitz Throws A Tantrum" A DMK Production

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David M. Katz

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Fitz (Fitzgerald Robert, III) is your thirteen year old son.  You use spanking with Fitz with success but Fitz has been talking to you and he says he is too old for spankings and that none of his friends get spanked.  He suggests he be grounded if a punishment is needed.  You agree to try it.

That was two weeks ago ad now Fitz is in trouble for several curfew violations and for letting his chores ship.  Normally this would earn him a sore rear but you tell him he is grounded for the weekend instead and tell him what all that entails.

Fitz becomes very upset and begs for a spanking as he "has plans" for the weekend.  You stand firm and remind him that this was his idea.  Fitz becomes livid and starts yelling and throwing a tantrum.

FITZ - 13
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What do you do about the tantrum?  Do you offer a spanking instead of grounding?

Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult.


Be care what you wish for. You might just get it.

Nope, I'm not offering spanking as an alternative to the grounding. If the tantrum doesn't stop this second, I'm offering it IN ADDITION TO the grounding.

Y Lee Coyote

It is apparent the Friz is not mature enough to make the switch.  I hope he calms down before I fetch a bucket of cold water.

I'll switch back and tell him we can discuss it again in 6-12 months.



I'm lining up with Kier.

Pi Beta

He's grounded next weekend as well as this - However, if he wants to rwenegotiate about NEXT weekend and return to being spanked, I'll cponsider it, but there is no way I am going to give way on this weekend.


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I'm also with Kier.


John Boy

Ditto Kier


Yup ditto kier.....

Hugs kal


To an extent, it depends on what his 'plans' were, but since I didn't know about them (apparently), I doubt they're a huge deal.

I am willing to sit down and discuss things with him. Maybe he had something in mind that I'm not understanding. In general, though, I think he's going to have to live with this, since the entire thing was his idea.

"In the end, it's just a story. But if you ask me, it's all true."


He can bawl this one out in his room and as my folks said he will be treated as his age when he starts acting like it. He can serve his time on this occasion after which we ca can revisit the question of spanking oif he wishes. He has to learn that punishments are nt for the convenince of kids. Its meant to be a deterrent.

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