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BOTD 01-18-2017 Do you accept the win OR keep your word?

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Skater

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Do you Accept the Win or Keep Your Word?


Your 13 year old son Frisco has been having a tough time lately. You've had to spank him three times this month and he's due number four tonight when you get home.

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Here is the problem. It's been a very wonderful family day out. All three of your kids (Including young Frisco) have behaved perfectly and everyone has enjoyed the day. Thinking back you can't remember a better family day.

When you get home do you send Frisco to his room and drop his red shorts or do you pretend you forgot and accept the day and worry about tomorrow, tomorrow?


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Michael Junior

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Skater wrote:When you get home do you send Frisco to his room and drop his red shorts or do you pretend you forgot and accept the day and worry about tomorrow, tomorrow?

Neither.

I think it's time for Frisco and I to have a heart to heart talk. We'll go to his room for some privacy, we'll talk about what a great day this was for all of us, and I'll remind him how much easier it is for us to enjoy days like this when everyone is behaving well and getting along. Hopefully, he can use this to build upon as he tries to move past this difficult period.

I'll remind him that he is still due a spanking for his most recent offense, but that in order not to spoil both our good moods, I'd like to enegotiate an alternative (lesser, non-physical) punishment. I'll tell him that I'd like this to signal the end of the tough time he's been having and the start of an extended period that's good for both of us.



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db105

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I'm not sure I understand. If he has behaved well today why am I spanking him? Why didn't I spank him when he misbehaved?

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David M. Katz

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Why did I wait?

Oh well, I did.

I will take Michael Jr's approach as far ad the talk but no punishment this time.


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Michael Junior

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db105 wrote:I'm not sure I understand. If he has behaved well today why am I spanking him? Why didn't I spank him when he misbehaved?

I wondered the same thing before posting my previous reply. scratch

I'm not sure of the author's intent, but I interpreted it to mean that perhaps Frisco did something early in the day that warranted punishment - perhaps as we were leaving for our family outing, and an immediate spanking wasn't practical. After all, at 13, he's old enough to wait for it when necessary.

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AFinch

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I agree with Michael Junior's approach.

Iconoclast

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Of course I will give him a pass!!

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StevieWeeks

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'Nuff said...

Kat

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I'll go along with Michael Junior also.

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ivor

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If he knew that he was going to get a spanking when he got home but has behaved impeccably during the day there might be two causes.

He may have thought that by doing so there would be a chance you'd change your mind.

Or, as spankings appear to have become a very regular feature, they could have lot their effectiveness and he just isn't that worried about what is to come.

I'd be inclined to tell him that his excellent behavior today has earned him a reprieve.

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Jack

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I agree with Michael, Jr on both posts. I just assumed he did something as we were leaving the house or in the car that warranted a spanking, but there wasn't time/privacy to handle it.

I also agree that the best way to handle it is a talk. I'm not going to pretend to forget it. That could just leave him worrying if I might 'remember' it tomorrow. Instead, I'm going to explain to him that, because of his extraordinary behavior today, I'm going to commute his sentence. I'll also let him know that he shouldn't expect that often, and if he gets in similar trouble again soon, he'll be getting it worse.

CAVEAT: There are a few things that I would consider unacceptable, where I may still have postponed the spanking. It is possible I would still spank in this situation, but I think it's really highly unlikely.


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squarecutter

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The cynic in me wonders if Frisco behaved beautifully to ensure that I would be in this quandary when we got home. But without knowing whaty he did or just when he did  it I like Michaels approach and to ensure it wasn't entirely scot free I may only let Cisco know of his "escape" near the end of our discussion



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Pi Beta

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"To err is human; to forgive divine"

I'm in a good mood; he's helped to influence that.

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