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BOTD 02-14-2017 Camping with Dad - A DMK Production

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Skater

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CAMPING WITH DAD
A DMK Production

You are a divorced father who shares custody of your two sons, eight-year old Benji and six-year old Brian.  You and your ex did not get along when married but you do communicate well about the boys.  You can see your boys whenever you want but the boys primarily live with your ex due to school zoning.  You always have your sons for most weekends, half of the holidays and for two weeks in the summer.  You and your ex both use and agree to the other's use of spanking with the boys.

You have taken two weeks off from work as it is the time for the boys' summer visit.  You have a father-son camping trip planned for the first week.  Benji and Brian are very excited.

You arrive and set up camp.  You show the boys their boundaries and make sure they understand them. The boys are clear on their boundaries and so you tell them not to wander off past that without you with them.

The boys have their own tent. The next morning the boys wake up early and you are still snoozing in your tent Benji and Brian decide to explore.  The boys wander off past their boundary without realizing it.  They continue their exploration.

You wake up and look for the boys.  They are not in the area and so you get frantic and start looking.  The boys stopped to climb around on a large rock and so you are relieved to hear them laughing and you run to them. The boys seem to be oblivious that there is a problem.


BENJI AND BRIAN
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When you ask, your sons explain that they forgot about how far they could go and that they "really hadn't gone that far." (They had wandered a good half mile in to the woods.)

Does you week of camping start with some spankings?


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Iconoclast

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No, but it will start out with me getting each of them a family radio (2 way), which they must carry always!

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db105

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Does you week of camping start with some spankings?

Sentences like "The boys wander off past their boundary without realizing it" and "The boys seem to be oblivious that there is a problem" tell me that there's no intention to disobey. They are being scatterbrained, but then they are only little. So I'm inclined to give them another chance but at the same time I can't let them keep doing this.

I'll tell them off, and say that it's not safe for them to wander off like that, and if they do this again we might have to warm their bottoms or maybe even go back home.

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I might give a smack to reinforce the boundaries, but the one who should really be in trouble is the one who slept in, leaving 6 and 8-year old boys on their own. That's why you share a tent in this kind of situation - to up the chances of them waking you before they get to far.


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Given that these kids are quite young, and, according to what we're told, they wandered off "past their boundary without realizing it." I fully agree with Icon and db that the boys do not merit spankings for this, at least at this point.

I will take the boys for a walk to go through the exact boundaries that I am establishing. After I walk them through this with me guiding them, I will have each of them take me through the boundaries themselves. Once it is clear that each boy is fully cognizant of what the established boundaries are, and has demonstrated that to me, I will then be able to hold them responsible for the limits of exploration.

I will, however, re-check with each boy what the boundaries are the next day and each successive day that we are camping, so that I am absolutely positive that their young minds have retained the limits that I set.

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Beaver

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I agree with the consensus: No spanking, but a reminder not to wander off. I also think Jack makes a valid point that if anyone deserves a spanking, it's me for sleeping in and not watching the little ones.

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Sherrif
I agree with Jack and Beaver.

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Sherrif
They are very young and excited at 6 and 8 and I can easily believe they forgot where their boundaries were on the first morning, So we will go over them again after breakfast. No spanking this time

ivor

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I'm gonna share a tent with Jack Smile

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10 Coming with the boys on Tue Feb 14, 2017 7:01 am

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I thank a little different. I would take both boys back to the camp after highschool and kisses. I would then reach the camp get out the spanking chair. Take both boys OK bare bottoms and give them a good spanking. After I would start tittle hem to death. With more hugged and kisses.

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I'm firmly in the no spanking camp on this, though a single gentle reminder after we've gone through the limits again might not come amiss.

Adric

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I wouldn't spank for a misunderstanding, and I think this is one.  Describing the boundaries of an open space could be especially subject to misunderstanding by boys that young.  I would not be cross with them and I would again attempt to describe the limits that I wanted them to observe.

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kalico

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Dittoing jack and the general consensus



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