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BOTD 03-07-2017 He is Late, but.... A DMK Production

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Skater

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HE IS LATE, BUT . . .
A DMK Production


This is your twelve-year old son, Kasper.
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Kasper is sending you a text at 5:59PM:

Hey.  I am at the park riding. Lost track of time. On my way. Sorry.

Kasper is subject to spanking and curfew violations definitely lead to a sore butt as you are a stickler for being on time.  Kasper has a rather standard after school routine.  He comes in and gets a snack then he goes off bike riding for the rest of the afternoon.  He is required to be home at 6:00PM for dinner and to start the evening's activities. After dinner and clean-up, Kasper will do homework and then there is a family activity like games night or a movie, etc.  Kasper then has time for a little screen time, if he wants it, before bed.

You are very happy that Kasper prefers to spend his free time out getting fresh air and exercise.  Most days Kasper is home by at least five or ten 'til six.  If he is late then he is in by at least 6:05 and you let the five minute tardy pass.

Today seems to be a one off for Kasper.  The park is definitely not off limits but it is a brisk bike ride from your house. Kasper walks through the door at 6:19.  He says, "Sorry, I'm late.  Did you get my text?  Dinner smells good."

Does Kasper escape a spanking?


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AFinch

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He texted. He's less than 30 minutes late.

He'll escape a spanking, but I will remind him he needs to "not lose track of time" or there will be consequences he won't like.

Beaver

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AFinch wrote:He texted.  He's less than 30 minutes late.

He'll escape a spanking, but I will remind him he needs to "not lose track of time" or there will be consequences he won't like.

I agree. If this doesn't happen all the time, I don't see why there is a need for punishment here at all. He is sorry about being late and texted me. There is no need to escalate the situation in my opinion. It would only lead to hurt feelings. A natural consequence might be that he loses his screen time since homeworks etc. still have to be done.

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18Smacked

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I will discuss this with Kasper and let him know what I deem to be a reasonable leeway for being late. Since he does not yet know this leeway, I will not spank him for this. If the leeway is less than 30 minutes (he was under this anyhow), then I will emphasize that this is the firm limit, and that his pants come down if he is in beyond that time limit.

I may consider having him do an early bed time tonight as a consequence, depending upon how he takes our discussion and how well he accepts what we discuss.

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Iconoclast

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Trailboss
I am so happy that Kasper rides his bike every day, not watching TV, that he gets a pass even without a text!

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Rules are rules and he's beyond the tardy "bell", though he did call, so one warning swat to the seat of his pants accompanied by a verbal warning as reminder to keep his curfew.

ivor

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From the scenario this is a 'one off' and he did send a text to let me know. I don't see this calls for a spanking, but rather a reminder of the rules.

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Jack

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"Yes, it does smell good, but you're not getting any - straight to bed with you!"

No, sorry - I jest.

It would actually be, "Yes, I got it. Thanks for letting me know. Kas, you know I expect you home by 6pm. Since you're usually really good at it, and since you did send a text, I'm not going to make a big deal about it this time. However, if you know you have to be somewhere, maybe you should set your alarm or something."

I'm kind of iffy on laying out a threat for the future. If he hadn't sent the text (or if he wasn't normally good at it), I would probably have a mild punishment. As it is, I might suggest that we require him to be home on time the rest of the week (or else), but since the scenario is kind of vague about how often he's 'just five minutes late', I think I won't even go that far. If it happens again, there's time to deal with it then.


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MemoryMan

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"Today seems to be a one off for Kasper."

Of course he gets off a spanking.  He also gets praise for showing responsibility and texting so that we don't worry about him.

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squarecutter

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His record seems pretty good and he did text. Hes entitled to the odd error but will be told not to make a habit of it. The importance of his text was that I could now work out when he should make it back which takes some of the worries out and probably saved his butt THIS time

David M. Katz

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I agree with the consensus.

I thought 'Kasper' was cute and wanted him to escape a spanking - this time.


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Padraig

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ditto...

db105

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Yep, one-off incident and he sent a text so that I wouldn't worry... not spanking material.

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