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BOTD 06-07-2017 A Curious Vocabulary for a Little Boy and All - A Stevie Production

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Skater

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A Curious Vocabulary for a Little Boy and All
A Stevie Production

Your son broke his leg and has been in a cast for several weeks.  

Today is the big day for him to get his cast off.  You decide to film the big event for posterity.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3wwk7qrYr8

To spank or not to spank?  That is the question.


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Yes Spank


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Zyngaru

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As much as I hate the F bomb.

He is too cute to spank for using it this time.

Yes we will have a talk and a firm warning of what will happen if he uses it again, but he gets a pass this time. He just got his cast off, without a fuss.

Then I will have to find out who is using this word in front of him, often enough for him to use it as naturally as he did.

Kat

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Nah. It's just a word and the circs weren't that outrageous. The med guy wasn't offended.

Kat

ivor

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I'm gonna cut him some slack. Smile

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MemoryMan

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Ditto Zyngaru

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Jack

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He obviously knows he screwed up. I'm going to talk to him about why we don't use that word, and how it can get him in trouble in certain situations. On the other hand, considering his size, I also need to wonder where he picked it up, and maybe clean up my own language a bit.


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squarecutter

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I suspect the little guy is old enough to know that THAT word gets a reaction but not not old enough to understand or have had it explained why and for those reasons we will be having a little teachable moment with no smacks. It says it all when the grown ups on the video broke into laughter

Y Lee Coyote

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Spanking is physically dangerous right now for he would kick and squirm and that would stress the leg that has not been used for weeks.

A delayed spanking is not reasonable.

Discussion time.

Y.

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Peter_Z

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I go with Zyngaru too this time.
And with Jack - where did he get these words.
And when he uses such words often then there will be another possibility soon to correct this.

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I concur with those who felt that there should be a careful and complete discussion regarding time and place of using such language, as well as a thorough examination of my own use of such language and whoever else (babysitters, etc.), that he comes into contact with, in order to ascertain where he is learning such things.

After a good discussion about these things, I will put the boy on notice that I do not intend to use such language in the future (assuming I have), and that I will expect the same of him, or else, certain specified penalties can and will be applied. And, I will make darned sure I cease using the foul language in his presence.

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Adric

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Y Lee Coyote wrote:Spanking is physically dangerous right now for he would kick and squirm and that would stress the leg that has not been used for weeks.

A delayed spanking is not reasonable.

Discussion time.

Y.

I agree with YLC - this is exactly what I was thinking.  If I spanked him now I wouldn't know how much I was hurting him because of the leg issue, and I don't want to risk not knowing what I am doing.  Delay would not be reasonable, so it's discussion time.

I don't use that kind of language ever, so he must have heard it from someone else.  I'll make sure he knows why I am not spanking him this time, why it's not acceptable, and what punishment he can expect if he talks like that in the future.

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AFinch

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I agree with Kat and with Jack. He didn't learn that word in a vacuum, and my reaction was the same as the med tech's. Not a spankable offense for me.

squarecutter

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I have a little tale related to this. As some here may know I play and also coach the English national summer sport of cricket . We use a hard and rather unforgiving ball which is cased in leather with a thick seam sown round the middle of it. Recently I dislocated a finger dropping a catch Sad

The under 9 group I currently coach use a softer version more akin in give to a baseball.) At one of our training sessions one of the little tykes threw such a ball at me from behind which caught my injured finger>>> Agony! Unfortunately I responded as one does with a two word expletive the first beginning with F and the other with H. Have you ever seen 30 nine year olds mostly boys fall about with laughter? Some of them thought it was hysterical. Clearly they knew that nice people, like their parents, hmm, never used such disgraceful language. I just hope none get in trouble on my account

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lol! Square,

Thanks for sharing that. I hope your finger is better.


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Square,

I have a story a bit similar to yours, but with a different twist to it. When I was about 10 or 11, I was playing catch with a baseball with my cousin under a streetlight one night in November. It was hard to see the ball, and it caught my outside finger, breaking the bone right after the last joint (that is, at the fingernail end). My uncle was a psychiatrist and surely knew a broken finger when it was as obvious as what happened in this case. So, because it was hurting, my dad took me to the hospital that night, and the doctor there put it in a splint, taking an x-ray before we left. He also asked for the name of the Orthopedic Surgeon we used- a Dr. Wilson.

Dr. Wilson called the house at 6 AM the next morning and said we needed to come back because he could set it better than how it was done. So, my dad packed me in the car, and back we went. Now, Dr. Wilson was in his elder years, and I now realize he was likely in his 60's if not 70's. He was also one who was known to have a "colorful mouth."

Into a treatment room went me, the doctor and a nurse. He began pulling on my finger and I was screaming in pain. At this he started screaming himself, saying that he was going to get this "Fing finger straight " no matter what. But this was repeated like a sailor's song. I aspired to be a doctor myself at that age, and I sure had heard my dad use that word from time to time, but not like a sailor's ditty!

Nonetheless, I was well aware that I should not use that language; not as a kid nor as an adult. And, I never did! In fact, in High School, our History teacher once asked me how come I never swore. "Are you in the seminary or something?" he asked me. "No." I told him, "I just think there are far better ways to express oneself." Very Happy

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Adric

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I'm with Zyngaru and Kat on this one, especially since that leg is probably not very functional right now and he may not be in good enough condition to take a spanking.  The med. tech. appeared to enjoy his outburst, so I need to make sure he knows that I didn't.

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