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BOTD 06-27-2017 Yesterday's Spanking - A Peter Z Production

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Skater

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YESTERDAY'S SPANKING
A Peter Z Production

This is your son Marcus. When you came home this summer evening you found him sadly sitting on the blankets in the garden.

You know why. You gave him a good spanking on his bare bottom yesterday evening. Something that happens very rarely to him.


MARCUS - 12
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Will you ask him why he looks so sad and possibly discuss with the spanking he got the day before or ignore his sadness and give him his time to be back to normal?


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db105

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Something in the middle. I'll chat a bit with him to see if he wants to talk, but if he doesn't I'll give him some space.

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18Smacked

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db105 wrote:Something in the middle. I'll chat a bit with him to see if he wants to talk, but if he doesn't I'll give him some space.

I agree with this, essentially. I will let him know that I am available and open to talking about anything he may care to discuss with me, but if he does not want to talk, and just wants some space, that is fine, too.

Then, I will ask what he wants on his pizza, and leave it there as his call on what he will choose to do.

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David M. Katz

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Looks like he's getting another spanking. I have told him before to not take that blanket outside. Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Razz

No, I'll just pause and ask if he needs to talk about anything. If he does then I'll listen.


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Kat

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I agree with Daniel's approach: offer to chat but be willing to give space.

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AFinch

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I think it's unanimous.

MemoryMan

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Yesterday was yesterday.

I'll greet him normally and note his response. If there is still an elephant in the room at dinner I'll find (or engineer) a private moment when I can make a sympathetic comment that he looks unhappy and ask if there is anything wrong.

If he passes up this opportunity to discuss and unload then I'll just leave it there and time and his own resources will have to be the healers.

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ivor

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Space - the final frontier.

I shall boldly go where no man has been before; invade his and see if with a bit of enterprise we can get our relationship back on track.

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Jack

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"Hey, Buddy. You been out here all day?"

This kind of bugs me, because it wreaks of something he engineered just to show my how unhappy he is. I guess it could be that I get home at a weird time, but the fact that he's sitting out here now - as I get home - 20 hours or so after the spanking just seems weird to me.

However, as long as he's polite and respectful, there's nothing wrong with him being unhappy or even in demonstrating it to me. So, if he wants to be unhappy - okay. If he wants to make sure I know - okay. If he wants to talk about it and try to work out what's wrong - even better.


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Peter_Z

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I somehow like this photo because the boy is looking a bit sadly and a bit uncertain and unsure.

So I think too I will somehow try to get him in a friendly conversation hoping to get at least some smile back to his face.

And hope of course that he isn't in trouble again.

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The look on Marcus's face suggests to me a lot more than just sadness. There is reproach, a feeling that trust has been betrayed, and that a crisis has been reached in our relationship. It's going to take a lot more than just 'Hey, buddy, it's all over now' to sort this out. He obviously feels that he has been unfairly treated, and that there are issues still to be dealt with.

I must tread very delicately.

Peter_Z

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Yes I think too he needs wise, loving and sensitive attention.

13 Yesterday's Spanking on Sat Jul 01, 2017 2:09 pm

Crimsonhide

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Ignoring Marcus will make the situation worse.

Most boys will accept the fact they were spanked, if they feel it was justified.  If they felt they were unjustly spanked, they will resent it and brood over it.

You really need to get down to his level and listen to what he has to say.  You may not agree with everything he says.  You may realize that he is not understanding your perspective.  

This is a listening moment and a  teaching moment, not a time for loud voices or harsh words.  As father and son, you two are on the same side.  You need to communicate with each other and let him know he is still very much loved.

Adric

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I'm with Daniel on this one.

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